Sorry for the blunt title, but have got many messages and I thought that I should maybe be more straight forward. First off, FWB is first and foremost about maturity and respect. It's a desire that two people are looking to get fulfilled and who like the excitement of possibly being caught or the build of of anticipation before you meet. It's not about money, it's not about judgment, and it's not a game to play with anyone who isn't mature enough mentally got understand the situation. The goal is to simply find out what your partner wants fulfill it, and them the same to you. I had a FWB for quite sometime but she recently moved away with her husband so I've been looking for a like minded per for a little bit now. Me, I'm 31, business type who is usually dressed up. Job is quite stressful and the FWB relationship helps alleviate that. I've been told that I'm very attractive but I'm also very modest so it's hard to describe myself (aka I don't really like too), but I've never had a hard time finding a girl...just a hard time finding someone for a FWB relationship. I never judge and aim to please in all regards. Looks come second to what's truly required in this relationship. If your confident and do understand what this is about, who is trusting and confident and who is just looking to fill a need, I'm looking forward to hearing from you :)